Husbands and wives have equal value in Christ (divine honor, dignity and glory), but have been created with distinct graces, giftings and roles to function as “suitable counterparts” to fulfill God’s purposes as “one flesh.” The Biblical design, plan and order for marriage conflicts sharply with those of this worldly culture; however, as disciples of Christ, the blueprint we follow for life, especially in marriage, is found in God’s word.  Some of the scriptures presented in this study will challenge us, they may expose painful wounds and be difficult to talk about... but it is worth it. As you prayerfully read and discuss these verses together, practice the following principles: honor the Lord and one another by extending love, humility, mercy and grace toward one another; focus more on how you can better apply the word than where your spouse is falling short; growth and change takes time, so be patient and don’t press issues beyond what can be discussed peaceably; there is no winner in a "one flesh" relationship... we either both win or we both lose.